Games People Play vs Growing Yourself Up: Which Should You Read?

Cover of Games People Play Games People Play Eric Berne · 1964 ★★★★☆ 3.7 191 pages · ≈ 3 h 32 m · Moderate
“OBSERVATION of spontaneous social activity, most productively carried out in certain kinds of psychotherapy groups, reveals that from time to time people show noticeable changes in posture, viewpoint, voice, vocabulary, and other aspects of behavior.”

Games People Play (1964) explores the fascinating and bizarre world of psychological games, where players unconsciously manipulate each other into acting in alienating and self-destructive ways.

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Cover of Growing Yourself Up Growing Yourself Up Jenny Brown, MSW · 2012 ★★★★☆ 4.2 276 pages · ≈ 5 h 07 m · Moderate

To be human is to be in relationships. We can't survive without them but at the same time it's in our relationships that we so easily come unravelled. There are certain relationships that seem to just do us in. Either…

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The verdict

How to choose

Scores by source

Games People PlayGrowing Yourself Up
Goodreads 3.7 (42507) 4.2 (609)
Hardcover 2.5 (1) —
Google Books 3.0 (4) —
Apple Books 4.5 (97) —

Reception

Games People PlayGrowing Yourself Up
Ratings 42507 609
Editions 57 7
Citations 810 —
Film adaptations 1 —
Want to read 10 1211
Reading it now 25 327
Written reviews — 84
Wikipedia attention 4571 —
Pages 191 276

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